Women over 50 are leading the boom in solo travel with single, divorced and widowed women feeling more empowered, confident and financially independent than ever before. But it can certainly be a little unnerving if you are considering it for the first time. Everything from choosing where to go, where to stay, eating alone, how to best see the sights, and how to get around. It can all seem too much but it really is worth being brave and taking that leap of faith. I’ve had so many fantastic and rewarding experiences which have given me the confidence to continue my solo travels and to really embrace the freedom and the enjoyment that it brings.
Things to consider – do you want to be alone on a honeymoon island surrounded by loved-up couples? Do you want to be in a resort or do you prefer to be in a hotel and if so how big? Should it have a restaurant and bar? Is Airbnb an option? I think it’s horses for courses – I’ve tried them all and have had great experiences in each situation – even on a honeymoon island in the Maldives – I became pally with the watersports team and had the best week diving, snorkelling and sailing while everyone else was otherwise occupied!
Weather patterns are changing and even if you find yourself landing in the middle of the rainy season, often the showers are intense but short-lived. You get a much better rate on single occupancy and if you are only a few in a resort or hotel you will get that extra bit of special attention. I was once the only person staying in an amazing wildlife lodge in the wildernesses of Borneo. At first, I panicked but once I relaxed I had the most amazing time – private wildlife safaris every day and dinner every night with the lovely lodge owner. Read my 5 top tips for travelling out of season.
Personally, I always like to have someone meet me when I arrive at the airport. It’s a bit of a security blanket – I’m sure others are more adventurous with local transport – but when you’re tired and feeling unsure of local currency and/or language I find it helps me to relax and feel more comfortable in my new surroundings. It’s part of my preferred way of travelling – independently but with the security and peace of mind of having booked with a tour operator.
Eating out can be tricky – if dinner is too much do the long lunch
I really, really wanted to visit Rio. It had been on my list of places to visit for a long time but I was struggling, as usual, with all the scheduled solo group tours and their jam-packed itineraries not quite fitting the bill, and I was not at all comfortable about going alone. I’d also been thinking about volunteering, so I was thrilled to find an opportunity where I could combine both. It worked out perfectly and I know from doing my research there are hundreds of volunteer options available, covering a wide array of incredible causes. You can check out my Brazil blog posts or read more here about my experiences.
Not much more to add here. Always respect the dress codes and customs as well as local opinions on females drinking alone. Be aware of your surroundings, stay safe and don’t break the law! All pretty obvious.
There’s no doubt that in many places the solo female traveller is a bit of a novelty. The first time I went solo almost every local woman I met asked me why I didn’t have a husband. In other places, you can attract unwanted male attention. I still laugh at my day trip with 80-year-old Charlie whose boat I hired for a sail around the Croatian islands. It started with him taking me to the only nudist beach in the vicinity and ended with him stripping naked and jumping overboard for a swim! He was completely harmless and I still dine out on that story, but I know if that were to happen to me now I would most definitely handle it a very differently!
